Instagram Dating – 3 Tips To Attract Girls On Instagram

Summarized by Christian Amsterdan

Following a girl on Instagram for dating purposes is not as good as getting her to follow you. Having her follow you, is not nearly as good as getting her number. If she is putting you off by giving you her Instagram, make sure she adds you, too. You can do this by giving her your phone for her to add you or you can pick her phone and add yourself. Of course, this is not as effective as having her phone number, but Instagram is still a good way to stay in touch with her. 

If you tell a girl on Instagram how good she looks in the pictures posted, it doesn’t really help build attraction, because many other guys are doing the same. Instead, start a conversation by asking her where she had the pictures taken. Make arrangements to meet the girl. Communicating through Instagram should eventually lead to dating her.

If she doesn’t want to go out with you alone, you can arrange a group meeting which involves her friends. A great advantage of following her on Instagram is that it enables you to learn about the likes and dislikes. With this knowledge in mind, you can invite her and her friends for an event where you have the opportunity to ask her for her phone number.

Another method is when you find out that she is attending an event with her friends such as a music festival. You can attend this event also and while there, write to her on instagram and tell her you are at the event. She may respond with surprise and tell you she is also present. You can then ask her whether you can have a drink afterwards, where you have the chance to ask for her number. This method needs tact. It would not be wise to just turn up in places where she is, such as a restaurant as it may seem strange.